How can I get ped this?

You have no reason to feel insecure. He is the one that betrayed you. Ask him how he would feel if you started having phone with other men online. Tell him that you think you and he need to work on your marriage and on your life. Tell him that you feel that if this does not happen soon, you and he need counseling. Tell him that if he wants to look at y women, buy a Playboy magazine, and stay off the chat lines.