I want to know what men prefer in women's... below the waist parts?

I get the "tight" part, but what about outside appearence? The reason I'm asking on here is you never know if your boyfriend/husband is telling you the truth, because they are going to tell you whatever you want to hear... I'm asking about outer and inner labia (lips) size, like thick and squishy or flat and thin... which do men prefer? I'm just curious because I'm a little self conscious (like all women) and although I've never had a guy complain, I have my doubts... and I'm not telling which one I have so I don't get any bias answers;)