So I asked my husband about him getting a vasectomy in the future after 2nd baby?

Men are very very shy and sensative about this matter. It is defintely easier for him to get a vasectomy than for you to get your tubes tied. My husband had one after I finally told him that I was not having any more because I wasn't going to risk getting pregnant. He finally agreed. It really wasn't that bad. It was an out patient procedure. He was put to sleep, and went home with painkillers that he never took, and an Ice pack. The biggest problem was that he was a little swollen for a day or two. Just lay off the subject until Baby #2 arrives and you are ready to resume having and then bring it up again. He can make an appointment with a urologist then